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Tuesday, December 28, 2010

my boys

the boys are getting older and changing.

i love them to death.

yesterday theodore and i had a great day. we bonded. played legos and learning. did a kumon learning book together. read a story. did gymnastics and some karate for fun. listened to music. ate some homemade chicken soup.

alvin has been taking care of me when i do not feel good. his hugs always make me feel better. they are the best medicine.

more updates on poor me

So yesterday the boys come over and the older two are wearing their clothes inside out and have the wrong size underwear. Alvin is wearing WAY too big of a pair and Simon is wearing a small pair.

In addition, their clothes smell terrible.

Today they come by and.....again their socks do not match. Simon's shirt is inside out and Theodore is wearing the same diaper he had on from last night.

Does this woman care about her children??

The kids are off of school this week and this is "POOR MEs" week. We asked her and emailed her at least 10 times but never heard back regarding the schedule. Then at around 8:30 am yesterday morning, she called my hubby and says I am bringing over the kids right now....
WHAT??? You never responded and let us know. But she did not care. Instead she provided us with an elaborate story about how she had work. WHO HAD WORK yesterday?? It was very difficult to drive anywhere. We had a major blizzard in the northeast. The news states that it was the biggest in a half a century. But of course POOR ME never let us know the schedule for the kids and then she acted as if she had work.

Our nanny went to her house to pick up the children and we kept them with us all day. The nanny let me know that POOR ME did not look like she was going to work as she was still in her pajamas.

We also have them today. Of course no schedule just random calls of come get the kids from me..."they really want to see u guys"

What is wrong with this woman???

Monday, December 20, 2010

hearing stories

I am beginning to go crazy from all of the things POOR ME calls my husband about and I am wondering what other new wives do. How do you ignore her??

Should I begin to not ask my husband to share what she does? But then I feel like I am not being supportive. What do you think is the best way to cope with her.


I am really wondering what other custody arrangements other step families have.